Should I tell him I just want to be friends?

I'm starting to really like this guy I've been sleeping with and he likes me a lot too. But I can't get over the fact that he hates his ex and talks about her every time we have deeper conversations. Clearly he isn't over her, and I am looking for someone who wants me and only me.

So is it rude if I say "I don't think we should do this anymore, but i'm starting to like you a lot and I can tell you aren't over your ex. You've brought her up almost every time we have hung out, and I'm looking for someone who's down for me only, so i have to move on. So lets just strictly be friends."?

Is that weird? because I'm sick of it and just want him to know how I feel.

Thanks guys, how will I ever keep up with all these helpful answers? I can't answer all 1 at once. *rolls eyes*


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  • If that's how you feel then be honest and tell him sooner rather than later.