Met a man. He said he loved me and I fell for it. Hook line and sinker. I am in my 40s. So, I feel like I'm 17 again.. After we "got" together he says he just wants to be friends. then he later says one day he may marry me. And still wants to hook up with me. Im confused. I don't want to be a friends with benefits and I told him that. But he still tries. I told him my feelings are more then friends and I dont want to get hurt. But sometimes he still tries. I don't know what to do. He is 8 years. older then me.
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He doesn't want anything serious with you.
He wants to use you as a hook up.
Use your many years of life experience to see past his bullshit.
I can see that from a mile away.
He is too old to be playing those games.
He needs to be real and straight forward with you.
It's okay to just want sex... but at least be honest about it and not lead a woman on.1