We've been together nearly a year now, he's 27 and I'm 25, and we haven't slept together yet and it's killing me!!
Anytime we get anywhere close he backs away and says he's very awkward about this stuff and then just cuddles me. I've been so patient and I am understanding but I'm beginning to find it really hard! As someone who enjoys sex as part of a healthy adult relationship, it's really starting to get to me.
Recently I tried to bring it up and said he has no idea how much I want him sometimes, he just responded saying how he's quite oblivious to things like that then changed the subject.
It's so unusual for a guy to wait this long. What can I do?
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I think it's very unusual. Do you know if he's had bad experiences in the past and is afraid of getting hurt or something? Or maybe he's afraid that you won't like it. Try to make him feel very comfortable (you probably already have, but just saying). Tell him you want to understand his reasons and that this isn't clear for you and you deserve to know why.0