I am confident in who I am but not in looks. I like who I am but I feel like girls won't be interested in me. I recently lost weight but still have a low self esteem as far as looks go. I feel like self esteem is a lot of baggage to bring into a relationship but does it matter? I don't want to keep questioning whether the girl I'd be with is satisfied being with me. I feel like I might do this. Does a girl want someone who is confident in who they are or confident that girls find them appealing and "want them".
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Most women say it is very important but what they dont realize is how many guys are confident that shouldn't be as they are really losers who talk a good game only... Not smart, not career oriented, players, cheaters, unstable. Young girls should look at the portential in a guy not a false persona of being confident.0