my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about a week or so, and he's been going to a bunch of party's and telling me about how he's getting twerked and stuff, and I told him about one guy that I thought was cute and now he's going psycho. he's texted me over 100 times because I didn't respond. and the guy that I think is cute treats me good and stuff and tells me things I like to hear. I feel like my boyfriend doesn't treat me with respect and how I want to be treated but I he really likes me and I think I like him still, I don't know what to do. and when we were going out we fought a lot and I'm just confused
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It would be easy to oversimplify, but lets not.
You have only broken up 1 week ago having lingering feelings is completely normal. So dont read to much into that. If you didn't have any leftover feelings i'd be inclined to ask if you ever had them to begin with.
Now when he is talking/boasting to you about getting twerked id consider that provocative and a bit unfaithfull. His reaction when you said some guy was cute is rather possesive (though it might have been a tad provocative he shouldn't go al psycho).
So his behavior is far from exemplary at the moment. If you add to this the fact that you dont feel respected or treated properly... I think its all there... You got your answer.
Im not saying you should close the door permanently but unless things change why would you go back?1