What should I talk about when I first meet a girl?

When I take a girl on a date on what topics should I talk about so that the girl will be interested in me to talk.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Play 21 questions. I guarantee you that if you do you will have no problem keeping a conversation going.

    Don’t ask her to play 21 questions! That’s not what I mean when I say “play 21 questions”. Simply ask questions. If you ask a question, you’re going to get an answer, and that answer will lead the conversation in any variation of directions.

    When you hit a dead end, ask another question! You would be surprised how easy it actually is to keep a conversation going using this method.

    My opinion, not yours.


    • Not only is it easy, it marks you as someone who has interesting things to say and likes to communicate. If you ask funny questions on occasion which make her laugh you'll have three major bonus points heading your way!

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What Girls Said 1

  • Ask her about herself, if she asks about you, don't go overboard... she mite get bored. See what you have in common so you have more opportunities for conversation.


What Guys Said 1

  • Her.

    Ask her opinion on current events, what you're doing at the time, chit-chat. Evaluate whether she's giving her opinion, or what she thinks you want to hear.

    Oh, by the way, girls are about as delicate as a piece of cured rawhide.