We've been flirting for a few weeks now. At some point he told me that he wanted to know more about me, and that we should go on a date etc. But then some days he'd be a bit more distant, saying stuff like you'll find a great guy soon.
So two days ago, I got sick of him saying stuff like that, and basically told him that I liked him. We were talking about relationships and he said that he doesn't really date, and for him, it's a serious relationship (I think he basically wants to get married to the next girl he dates?) or just friendship. But then I really had to go for something so we didn't finish the conversation (it ended with me basically telling him that I like him).
That was two days ago and I haven't talked to him since then because I figured that if he's interested, he'd talk to me (like, I thought i should give him a chance to respond, and if he's not interested, I'll try not to take it personally and just move on). But he hasn't messaged me in about two days (well, maybe a day and a half), but he still likes stuff that I put up on fb and stuff...
What's going on? Everything seemed so good until now. He'd tell me how he thought I was cute, we'd text throughout the day every day and send random photos of our daily lives, and we'd flirt and have fun. We're also long-distance and we've been talking about him coming to see me and stuff, and planning the things that we want to do when he comes, so I'm really upset that the communication seems to have died completely :(
Will he text me back soon, do you think? He also just got out of a relationship of like 5 years maybe 3 months ago, but I got the vibe that he's over her, because he doesn't really try to talk about her, and also he was the one who dumped her.
Is it over? I feel like I should move on to save a heartbreak, but I honestly thought that he liked me (like, women's intuition), and I really like him too!
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Oh my God! I just had that experience last Tuesday. There's this guy (same with yours, long distance and stuffs), and he always called and texted me. He was so sweet and everything. He even told me several times how he loves me already. He just broken up with his ex like last two months ago and he also said he was over her since he's the one who dumped her. But last Tuesday, everything change. He didn't call me like he used to. He didn't text me either. And I thought that if he really cares, he'll be the one doing the first move. So I waited. Then I figured out he already have a girlfriend. I saw his post on Facebook like 5 hours ago now. So I unfriended him and texted him how big of a liar he was. He just played with me. So based on my experience, I think your man doesn't like you anymore. I don't know. I could be wrong. But I suggest you take care of your heart and expect the possibilities that can happen.0