We were friends in college, lost touch, and we're recently matched on a dating site. He asked me if I wanted to get together to catch up and I said sure. We had a great first date (IMO), great conversation, he picked up the check even though I offered to split it with him, kissed goodnight. I sent him a text the next day saying thanks for a great night, he said he had fun too. So now the waiting game. Should I wait for him to call me or take charge and ask him out for the second date?
- Ask him outVote A
- Wait for his callVote B
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So.. I put myself in his shoes, and then back in yours...
And I would say that you should try something like telling him you are going to do something (that you are going to do anyway), and that if he feels like joining you he should show up
It would put aside the pressure of the bar set on the first date, and would also be a subtle way to ask him out
Not sure if I did a good job explaining what I thought, but... do you get what I mean?4