I see all of these girl listing all their wants/needs, what they want in a man, adventurous, but they are all the same, with the same about me's. I get the sense that a lot of these girl are wanting something they really could not possibly get in real life. I've even found girls that were on there chatting with, only to disappear and never reach out to me. I find that girls have a choice in who to choose, due to the high number of males contacting them daily (someone told me). I see a lot of single mothers/above average weight girls on there. Is online dating a joke/waste of time? I feel most of these girls are just on there for own ego/to use it as a boost? Your experience/take?
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As another person said, there are lots of people just looking for hookups on PoF. Online dating is much like regular dating in that it takes time to find someone you are interested in who is also interested in you.
I know guys have to send a lot of messages to girls and hope to get some back and girls have to sort through a lot of messages from creeps and jerks to find someone they are interested in also. It's discouraging for both sides sometimes.
Best thing to do is send quick messages that show you read their profile and ask a question or open up a conversation in some way.
I met my bf on PoF and we have been together over a year and recently moved in together. I was doing online dating for 6 months before I met him. Went on lots of first dates and even dated one guy for a couple months but ended up not being that compatible overall.0
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