Girls, would you be okay dating a dude who's a stoner, or smokes pot sometimes? Or is the idea too conflicting or seems too stressful to you?
(Girls) Dating a pot smoker?
What Girls Said 20
Depends, is he a productive pot head or one that only cares about when he gets his next high?
I have a friend who smokes a ton, but has manager to create his own business and is a junior at our school, all before he turned 21. I would totally date a guy like him.
A former roommate of our got caught driving high and on possession charges, was mandated to AA (they technically found him guilty of a DUI hence AA and not NA) and random supervised drug tests. He would then proceed to complain about how dumb our state laws were and get high most nights, especially when his brother moved in with us. He didn't do anything to fix the situation and instead blamed us for his mistakes. I can't stand people like that.1
stoner =/= smokes pot sometimes. stoners are like constantly high and smokes pot sometimes literally means just that. stoner no thank you. smokes pot sometimes sure. if he is still a productive member of society I don't care if he smokes pot recreationally with friends on some weekends or something. but if he always needs to be high then I would rather not.1
Personally i don't care at all. A lot of the effects of alcohol are worse and other than the fact that it's illegal, I think pot is actually quite beneficial to a lot of people. And it's only a few years until it becomes legalized in North America along with many progressive European countries. Plus I mean most of the pot heads I know are the smartest, most kind and relaxed people I've ever met. So no, them smoking pot would not affect my decision on whether or not they are dateable.2
Mm I mean as long as he didn't smell like pot 24/7 and I could actually have a decent conversation with him. But I wouldn't want him to smoke around me I hate the smell.0
Yeah, that's pretty cool with me. As long as smoking isn't getting in the way of his life as in he's getting lazy and just wants to smoke pot all day. Would rather date a pot head than an alcoholic. By the way, the girls that are "annoying" with it aren't usually pot heads at all, they're girls who smoke once then constantly talk about it because they think it's cool. I also don't know how you link up girls that smoke pot with being "sluts" lol geez.1
I've dated stoners before and it's fun I even join in with them but I wouldn't want them to be high everytime we chill like ya it's fine if they do it0
No. Smoke is smoke. I'm not dating a smoker of any kind.2
Nope nope nope https://imgur.com/1ytWzyh1
It's not ideal.0
The smell is nauseating, but as long as he doesn't do it all the time or while I'm there it's fine.
I wouldn't date a "stoner".
He can only do it sometimes.0
I'd be okay if he smoked it sometimes, but not all the time.0
Is this frequently? On a daily basis? I don't think I could cope with it.0
Nope not ok with me..1
I'll be okay, as long if he does not smoke everyuyy week. Just one on a while..0
No to a stoner, yes to someone who smokes every once in a long while-like my bf. He only smokes with friends from time to time, never daily. It makes him sleep a lot and he's used to being really active.0
No. I think it smells disgusting and I can't handle smoke of any kind. My ex smoked and said if we ever had children, he would make them smoke with him when they turned thirteen. I wouldn't want drugs, or the mentality that drugs are okay, around my children if I ever had any.3
What Guys Said 5
Well, I would say find a girl who smokes. But some of them are annoying as shit.1
There are girls who do they themselves are pot heads too though lol.3
i believe girls should realise that a pot smoker is much more healthy than an alcoholic basically0
I recommend not... my last girlfriend left me for a stoner, and she got used and dumped a week later.0
I'm sure all girls love the idea of working 2 jobs while their boyfriend vegetates on the couch1
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