I have been flirted with and "age fished" by guys way to old for me. Like in their twenties, and yes they are cute, but I still live at home. I am not at the same place as them. I am in my senior year this year. Every guy I have liked my own age, it has never worked out with. I like shy geeky guys mostly, so I think that is an issue for me. I am a very loud and mature acting girl. I am a straight A student, so I have been into school a lot, but I do "have a life" and hang out with my friends. People mistake me for being in my twenties very often, mainly when I am out with one of my parents eating diner or going to a concert. I feel I am just not easy to approach, so I have flat out told guys I think that they are attractive after awhile. I just have never gotten a guy my own age in high school to mutually like me back or want to go out. I mean I feel like it should be normal to never have gone on a date, or kissed anyone, held hands with a guy, etc... in High School, but what do you think? Did I miss out on anything?
- Girl, you missed out on dating in high school... and never? Not even before high school?Vote A
- It is normal to never have gone a date in high school. I never have/never did go on a date then.Vote B
- While I dated in high school, it is no big to have never dated.Vote C
- N/A I don't know (explain below)Vote D
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No big deal, I didn't have any luck with women and dating until I was in college. Part of it was my own fault. I had some girls into me when I was in high school that I kinda overlooked because I had ridiculously high standards and only wanted the really good looking, popular girls. It was very stupid of me because when I'd get rejected by them, I was under the impression that no one else would like me and was afraid of rejection. Then again, you can't really complain about lack of success when you don't even try in the first place.
Nowadays I just try and the girl will either like me or she won't. Everyone you like isn't gonna like you back just like how you're not gonna like everyone who likes you. Rejection isn't really a big deal though. Being led on is.0