So lately my bff s boyfriend and I started talking. let s call my bff E and her boyfriend M. Anyways, M and I have been texting a lot and he s been telling me about how E has started hanging out with some new people and that she has changed. Today, he got really sad because she was ignoring him all day and I tried to cheer him up. Apparently it worked because when he had to go, he told me thanks for everything and to text him later. When I said bye, he said ¨No, for real, thanks J¨. I liked him before but now I like him even more! Also, my E has always taken M for granted and always talks about how she won't even care if he dumps her because she has other guys who would want her. I keep reading over all of our conversations and I always get really happy when I read them and I really don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated.
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I think you need to either stop these convos with her boyfriend or let him or her know how you feel. You're putting yourself in a very bad position. I mean, come on, you already had a crush on him before, but you decided to start texting him? You knew that was a bad move. You don't make moves on your BFF's boyfriend. I am friends with my bff's boyfriend and I can kid and joke around with them and stuff, but I don't text them exclusively all the time, if at all. Unless you were best friends with him before they became a couple, then it's best not to do that. My boyfriend is best friends with one of my best friends. My bff actually introduced the two of us. I don't care if they text or not, but I also know that they do not have feelings for each other and I know that they only see each other as brother and sister basically. Now, if my other best friend was texting him all the time (she doesn't know him as well) then I would have a bit of a problem with that. Respect their relationship and let him go. I know that you like him, but he likes her.0