im 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. not because i dont want one but boys never really seem to be interested in me except in a sexual way. i date girls now because it never works out with boys. why? people say im beautiful all the time. i try to be nice to everyone i meet but i am a little shy. I've always had trouble communicating with people, especially boys, but its not like i never talk to people at all. my girlfriend tells me im perfect and sexy and i could have anyone in the world if i wanted too. i dont get it. im not looking for anyone right now because im in a relationship but i just want to know what there is about me that makes boys not want to date me. i remember the one time i asked a boy out he turned me down and his excuse was that i worry too much. some boys have told me im intimidating. others never talk to me in person but always text me etc. but none have shown genuine interest in me. am i just too bland? or unattractive?
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there is nothing wrong with you. some guys might call you intimidating because they are just afraid to ask you out. i wouldn't have that problem if it weren't for the fear of being rejected. hey if i were a girl i'd probably date girls.
the point is some guys are douches, others are scared because of your style buts there is no reason you should dress differently.0