I always ask people this and they don't understand. I don't like guys that like me.
For example, If I were to like a guy sooo much to the point where I freak out when he talks to me, the second he likes me back I don't like him anymore. I hate it, I don't like it when he shows affection buuut when he doesn't I get all sad and think he doesn't like me.
Im not aromantic or anything I just don't like too much or too little. I guess I think he likes me more then I like him if he says something too sweet then I just don't like him anymore.
Also if I like someone and they do something embarrassing in front of me (only if they act embarrassed) then its bye bye
Why am I like this? Should I adopt 12 cats and become a cat lady? It wouldn't be a problem.
- Become a millionaire and don't worry about guys.Vote A
- Adopt 12 - 24 cats and live a happy life.Vote B
- Live your life as an undercover agent and steal foreign boys from other countries.Vote C
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A lot of the time it is about value. Since girls are more attracted to social value rather than appearance (unlike guys), they tend not to like guys who immediately want them for seemingly no reason.
Since most people want to be with someone who is better than they are, not worse, girls won't value a guy who likes them as much. The mentality is, "if he likes me, then how good could he possibly be?".
Many women tend to prefer to get a guy who isn't 100% sure about her, but then she somehow convinces him to like her. You might be one of these women. Guys who show less interest have more value in your eyes and ones who show more interest have less. Again if the guy shows interest back to you, he loses value in your eyes because it was too easy and he therefore can't be that great.
Some of it might be a self-esteem issue. If you don't think you are that great of a catch, then you won't think any guy who likes you has any value.
That's likely why you don't like the guys who like you.2