I recently just got my first boyfriend. It was rushed. First we talked on social media then at school and so on. A few weeks after he asked me out and well yeah. We've been together for about two weeks, but I have mixed emotions about him. I like him yet I don't. He just doesn't fit all my check boxes and I mean it's fine to sometimes not base everything off of this idea you've created of how your boyfriend should be and look. He used to date a lot of girls, and he goes pretty fast. In a week and a half he tried kissing me like five times. Considering the fact he'd be my first kiss and what not I always back off. I feel indifferent about the relationship and I feel like I don't know what to do. Help?
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The feelings you are experiencing are only going to grow worse with each waking day here, dear. You have openly admitted it 'Was rushed' and now, after 'About two weeks,' you Have------Mixed emotions about him. This is not healthy nor fair to either one of you. It's not considered a relationship where anything will go anywhere but down a bad beaten path and end up to be a War of the Roses... it's time to open your eyes.
He is obviously not for you or you wouldn't be feeling like it's this train wreck just waiting to happen. Instead of being on Cloud Nine, you are going over things in your mind that make you not really want to be with him.. The mere mention of "I have a boyfriend" is the only thing that Is on your mind but it is going nowhere right now and probably won't in the future... bottom line is, he is not your type totally.
Have a talk with him. Start being honest with him, honest with yourself. You need to tell him that you are not ready for this relationship and for now, you would just like to hang out, go out and take it slow until you know or even tell him... "No, I just want to be friends."
Good luck. xx1