whats your opinion guys? do you like it when girls play hard to get? or is it a turn off? do you like the chase?
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I can share a cautionary tale from the guys perspective.
I was told a story a while back from a guy who told me that he liked this girl in college and he thought she was dropping hints that she liked him too. He summoned up the courage and asked her out. She said no. She was polite about it but he was still embarrassed. He avoided her for a while after as he was embarrassed and he was worried that she thought he was weird and didn't want to come across as desperate or anything.
A while later he got talking to a friend of hers and according to the friend, that girl was crying afterwards. Apparently, she thought he was "the one" and wanted him to take her seriously so she wanted to make him "work for it". When he avoided her afterwards she thought she had pushed him away.
Anyway, they never really talked afterwards, he thought he creeped out a girl he liked and made a fool of himself and she thought she had blown her chance with the guy she thought she might settle down with. Neither knew how the other felt so they avoided each other.
People are weird and mixed signals can screw things up. It would be easier (and we'd all be happier) if we could all be honest about how we feel (as hard as that is).1