So I've been going out with this older guy (33) who my parents are really unsure if... tbh they don't trust him and think he's creepy. But it's my life so whatever.
Anyway he really likes me and says he could see things going somewhere (I like him but im still unsure) and he said to put my parents mind at ease he wants to write a letter... like old fashioned saying what his intentions are, giving them info about him etc.
Tbh I really don't want this and it's kind of getting me annoyed. He said because he has a daughter he wants to put their mind at ease but I feel like if I ask him not to he should respect that. He wouldn't even agree to send it to my name instead of theirs.
To be honest it really pisses me off. He says he likes me because I'm experienced and mature but then he treats me like a fucking child. I feel like him and my dad might as well discuss my dowry. I don't like feeling like I'm other people's property and my parents made me feel that way my whole life.
I know I've given them reason to worry in the past... but this is none of his business right? Tbh I'm just thinking about ending things. I like when guys are old fashioned and respect my family but doesn't' it seem a bit sexist if I asked him not to and he insists?
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I have seen you around here, and you are neither rationale nor mature. You had somehow almost justified an action of a woman putting acid on some guy's dick by saying it happens in the Middle East. And you have posted a picture of yourself saying something like, this was taking when I was high. Also, maybe you should listen to your parents, they know what the fuck they are talking about. And don't come at me with the whole "it's my life I can do what I want", you're their child and you are fucking up, and they don't want you to fuck up.0