Valentine`s is coming up and I have a question for all guys. I am 17 years old, weird-probably, yet have some friends. I have never had a boyfriend. Either I am scared or the person I like do not like me. So I have a question for you. Do you have some characteristics of what you like with a girl.
for instance, is it possible to be too happy or positive. Something wrong about that.
Right know I am considering and thinking about the greatest question in life: Why do all the popular girls get boyfriends. Deep down I don't have that low self-esteem nor I am not to high on my self.
Thank you for every help you give me!
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Popular people are extroverts. They are accustomed to being surrounded by others and being paid lots of attention. And its easy to like them because they go to great lengths to be likable. Teenage boys are attracted to the popular hottie because they perceive them as easy - to talk to, to have relationship with, to bed. The more "ordinary" girls are shy and introvert and it takes a lot more work to figure them out and like them. Personally I've always liked a challenge and so far it really pays off.0