I've been with my boyfriend for three years now. In 2013 he proposed, I said yes. I know my health don't help our situation, as last year we were supposed to the tie the knot. He distances himself from certain topics. Marriage and our financials. I understand and agree we need to be financial set before getting married. But as soon as I ask him for example the ceremony spot he becomes super angry and starts to yell. He knows I'm not booking anything or putting down payments on it.
Which this brings me to the second part. As I said above my health is in bad shape. We currently spend close to $250 a month in doctors visits and prescriptions. He won't include me in the financial aspect of the relationship. So this means my doctors visits and prescriptions can only be made and purchased when he says make your appointments. When I tell him I have made my appointment but its only on this day, he yells at me again because its too late in the month. He knows my cardiovascular surgeon is only in the office closest to our house one time a month.( still a half hour) one way.
How do I get him to be more open about our financial aspect? What would you do?
Sorry this was so long, its been bothering me for the last year.
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This sounds like a very volatile relationship. In this short question you mentioned him yelling at you several times. You need to... not get married. There are plenty of good men who will be there for you and take care of you while you are sick. He doesn't seem to be one of them.1
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