Should I change my looks?

Hey guys. This has been bothering me for a couple of months. 2-3 years ago, I was skinny, had medium long hair and was pretty decent looking. I generally had no problem with girls and it was easy for me to get where and when I wanted with them. During these 2-3 years I started working about, started shaving my head due to receding temples and changed the style of clothing. Needles to say, I look like a typical gym douchebag (read Vin Diesel or Jason Statham) and I see I have a lot of trouble with women opening up and giving me a chance.

Now, I understand the stereotype. That look intimidates men and women alike but the problem is that I'm a pretty good guy with normal upbringing, able to care and provide everything that a girl/woman needs in a relationship. It's pretty easy to hook up with Cluster B women in the clubs but I'm not interested in that. Normal girls dismiss me right away, not giving me a chance to prove myself because my looks tell them I'm aggressive and not trusting. I assume it because I know basic fundamentals with women. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty self-confident but I haven't been in a relationship for the past 3 years. My question is this:

Should I change my style and let my hair grow out (even though I wouldn't be able to style my hair the way I used to because of the receding hairline) so that I look less intimidating or should I just rock the look I want to? Keep in mind that I'm perfectly comfortable in my own skin and I like this look I'm having. I don't care what other people think but for meeting women, I'm thinking of making an exception. Thanks in advance, guys.


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  • Do what you feel most comfortable in. Don't worry about what other people will think


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