Where are these people in real life?
Most Helpful Girl
1) Online dating is kind of a numbers game for guys. They rarely get messages, and get very few responses to the messages they send. Therefore, they will view and message as many girls they find attractive as they can (most of them anyway).
2) It's a very non-scary way to approach women. It's a message in the comfort of their own home in which they don't have a face a real rejection. They also know you're receptive to being approached because you signed up! There are probably tons of guys IRL who want to approach you, but don't because of nerves, fear of rejection, and not sure if you're open/receptive to it.7