We're not dating or anything but we had like a sexual relationship going on to the point where I started to feel used by him, because we would meet, he would talk me into having some type of sexual relationship with him (with PROTECTION EVERY TIME) , then when we leave each other I can't really get a hold of him. He'll like text me once a week, but won't really try to have a conversation with me. Anyways I've text him twice over the past couple of days, but he won't respond to me. Even when he text me on Monday, after I responded he ignored me and I haven't really heard from him. I'm over this cycle with him, but I really like him. I don't know why he treats me like this. This is not the first time that he has done this, he'll like disappear now and then come back around in about two weeks. It's not fair to, so what should I do?
- text him again and confront him about itVote A
- Just leave him alone and forget about him, no more second chancesVote B
- wait for him to come back around, meet up with him and tell him how you feelVote C
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I personally think he just comes around when he wants to have sex with you he probably doesn't want anything else from you other than that, so once he gets sex from you he goes on his way until he wants to have sex with you again. I know what your going through because I had a sexual relationship with a guy and I really liked him but once I gave him what he wanted then he would not text me for a while which left me feeling hurt and used.
If you continue to have a sexual relationship with him you will get hurt because you already like him and he may not be looking for a relationship but only sex. Maybe talk to him and ask him what he wants with you and if he could see a relationship with you and if he can't then I suggest you move on because you will only get hurt and feel used by the way he is treating you.1