I do not believe this, but in dating do you believe that if your main girl doesn't work out, that you should always have someone on back up to go to for comfort? I believe you should give your all to one person and only one person, but maybe in this day and age, it may be different?
I was told by a buddy of mine that its better to have a main girl, and then 4 other backups just in case. Is this a good strategy? I don't believe its fair to do that to someone else..
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I don't think so. You're not being fair to yourself, the "main person", or the "others". Exactly like you said. What if you're trying to win the "main person" over and one of the "others" is head over heels for you? At that point, you're leading them on.
Plus, how would the "main person" feel of they knew there were others in rotation, so to speak?0