By that, I mean guys like the one that I'm kind of sort of dating. I'm ALMOST ready to move on and find someone else because he's not super awesome, but he keeps doing the absolute minimum amount of work required to keep me interested. For example, stuff like this:
- My rule is that if we go for 72 hours without talking, then I contact him once more, and if he doesn't respond, I move on. He went without talking to me for 72 hours once, and when I poked him, he apologized and now he messages me every two days lol.
- On my bday, I was ready to move on if he forgot about it. At about 11:30pm he wishes me a happy birthday.
- If we decide to hang out sometime during the week, then he'll call me maybe on Friday , and try to see me during the weekend.
- If he promises to do something for me, he'll forget about it, until the last moment when he remembers and does it.
So, in all, he's not bad, but I also feel like he's "barely passing". And it's not a one-sided thing either. I often initiate contact, when he doesn't call me. When he doesn't make plans, I try to make plans. And so on.
What do you think of a relationship like this? We're not actually officially dating but it could happen in the near future... And he's quite romantic and attentive when we're together.
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Hmm, I don't know, I think just think he's not really interested. Maybe you need to be more expressive or maybe you should sensitively ask him I don't know. So whats the reason that you two are seeming a bit distant from eachother?0