I am 18 and never had a bf and i really want one. I am good looking and a nice person. I want to find someone and give him love and make him smile, just that. I can't find anyone. I have been rejected because they said i was a good girl. It is just me. It doesn't happen, nothing. I remember the guy i liked last year, we were highschool seniors and he was looking at me a lot, he is very shy and turned away when i caught him but we never really talked but i would feel his eyes on me and my bff was looking at him and said he was indeed looking at me a lot. Nothing happened because we were studying very hard for university, without distractions. Somehow lately i can't get him out of my head at all. I know he wants a girlfriend but he hasn't found one. I happen to see him sometimes and i tremble, my heart beats and it hurts. I haven't said that to anyone. I say i hate him a lot and he makes me angry. I jusy need love and all i want is to give love and happiness. It hurts sooooo much. I dont know what to do. I feel so frustrated, in pain and dissapointed.
I want a boyfriend but it doesn't happen? Please help me?
What Guys Said 5
I'm exactly the same and I know completely how you feel :(
Just aim to start being friends with a couple of guys and see where it takes you from there would be my best advice
I too have the feeling of being alone forever but you won't, you will find someone soon I promise
Just take your time and try to have a good time with friends1
Well, I want a girlfriend, but still nothing :((1
What Girls Said 3
well... first off... you have to approach this with your needs first. stop saying what you want to give someone and focus on what you want. you' re young so it's still about your needs. Not to sound selfish but enjoy it now because when you do meet that one an you fall in love you sometimes forget about yourself from time to time. That's what true love is. in due time. just relax enjoy life and don't search for it let it come to you. if he's interested he will approach u. if not screw it u have options u just have to notice them with confidence. just relax2
Go out and meet people. He isn't just going to fall out of the sky for you. I kept saying that when I was younger and now I'm 18, I've already had a bf before though but trust me it isn't everything, at least that's how I learned it. Go up to people and socialize with them and talk to him. Building a strong relationship with someone takes a lot of time. You have to become friends first and get to know each other. Don't discourage yourself so much, I kept telling myself that I wanted and needed a boyfriend when I was younger but I've realized it isn't everything in life. Maybe start focusing on yourself and not so much on needing a boyfriend. One thing I learned is you do not need a boyfriend to make you happy, and you can't depend on your partner for happiness. Never settle, and always be yourself whenever you like a guy.1
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