How to keep him from getting bored?

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three months, and as time goes on, I see him get into spells of boredom.

And, I know I'm not the most exciting of people, but I'm not really sure what to do to keep him from being "bored".

I was thinking of doing those little things guys always say drive them crazy, like touching him certain ways (non sexually) or things like that.

Thank you. xx


Most Helpful Guy

  • If you are already bored then it's kinda useless to keep dating dude.
    Many old people who have been married for over 50 years still aren't "bored", so...

    • Haha yeah, I'm not bored at all... He may be. But it's alright, we're a high school couple and will most likely break up anyways... I guess I'm simply trying to prolong our time together, and his boredom is kinda messing with that.

    • Oh wow. You know you'll break up anyways? Seriously what is the point. Is this how everyone thinks? I am the only one who would date a girl with the possibility of maybe marrying her in the future?

    • @DarkHumorRUs She's being realistic. Most relations will end, that doesn't mean you don't want it to last, it just means you're not deluded. The fact that a relationship will likely end doesn't mean you should be in it.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Try what you're thinking and see how he reacts.


What Girls Said 1

  • Uhh... it probably helps when you actually talk, see and communicate with each other. Just a thought.

    • We do talk quite a bit and communicate.. It was just out of curiosity and all that. But thank you for responding.

    • Do you see each other?