Why does it always have to be that you get messages from people you'd rather not get messages from? It seems like I'm getting lots of profile "likes" too but I can see who.
Does paying for the up-level membership really help narrow down your options and potential dates?
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I can't speak for the paying thing. I can't afford to spend money on things like that right now. But don't feel bad for not replying to messages if you don't get the right kind of vibe from someone. I usually will ignore "Hi" or "Hey, how are you?" messages simply because I've worked hard to make my profile interesting, but still give guys ways to engage in conversation. When they don't take advantage of that, it seems like they either aren't truly interested in getting to know me or they just lack basic communication skills. Either doesn't attract me.0