I have this tendency to go back to guys from my past. I never was in a serious relationship with any of them, but I did reject them. I do meet new people, but always find my self going back, why?
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(I am a girl using a guys account) your past is familiar. And feels safe. Especially if the one guy you go back to a lot talks about a future with you, that feels safe and trustworthy, you wouldn't have to wonder what he wanted or if he would stick around. Its easier to go back to your past. But you won't find anything new in your past. If you rejected those guys it was for a reason and you need to remember that. If you are feeling lonely it will seem like am obvious option to go back to them but you will just be repeating heartbreak for you and the guy in the end. Try to let go of everything in your past and focus on what's in front of you now, even if it can be intimidating0
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