So, I got bored a little over a month ago and downloaded tinder for the purpose of finding someone new to talk to. I have a fairly routine life which includes work, the gym, and two kids. I have not met anyone new or interesting in a little over a year and naturally loneliness was setting in. I never planned on meeting anyone, but I decided to meet up with a guy I actually became really interested in. First date was amazing, second date turned into a sleep over, third and fourth date also went very well and also turned into sleepovers. I have never felt so completely comfortable with someone so quickly and I've never had anyone look at me the way he does. (I could go on about this but it's not necessary to my question :) )
After only a month, I feel like I could see this guy and myself working out well, but the problem is I have a difficult time talking about feelings and relationships. I don't want to come across as I am pushing a relationship, because I'm not, I understand not all people are out there looking for much more than a fling, I sure wasn't looking for anything more than someone to talk with at the end of the day, until we met.
My whole point is I wanted some input if it was to early to bring this up or not. I've only been in two previous relationships, one two years long the other was 10 year long, and I've been single for a little over a year and in past relationships exclusiveness was kind of assumed and never talked about.
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From my previous relationship: Just ask him how he feels with the idea of being exclusive. When I met this guy, I realised I didn't wanted to be with anyone else on our first date. However, 3 months later I found that it would really annoyed me if he was seeing someone else, that's when I told him about being exclusive. (I didn't had any reasons to be mad, but I knew it was the right time to know if he wanted exclusivity or not, instead of keep investing more time and then found that he didn't wanted to go exclusive)1