So just want your moral opinion. My gf is open about everything with me, her family problems, money issues, she even tells me when guys hit on her (even though I don't like it) because it makes her feel guilty not too tell me. I on the other hand often don't tell her things I think would upset her. For instance I didn't tell her when I lost my job for a bit (I got another job about 3 weeks later) I am loyal to her and really love her, but honestly when it hurts is hard for me. What are your thoughts?
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In no way are you an asshole or a bad guy. It's nice to hear that she completely trusts you and knows that you are there to support her. I think the only thing is that you need to learn to open up to her a little. Do you fear what she'll think of you? Because she sounds like a nice person. What I'm trying to say is, you both have a good relashionship but I think she has developed trust into the relashionship quicker and she now knows that you won't think she's stupid. Maybe you still need some time to know that she will support you? I hope everything works out for you, and remeber you're not an asshole ;)1