Why do some guys believe its worth it to maintain bullshit like this while dating girl?:
1. Make a girl think she is soo important, like say things like... oh I want you to meet my friends and family. When they let you meet them, he's say something like... oh everybody loves you, especially my sister... she never hung out like that with any of my girlfriends... she said she loves you when she didn't. OR he would make you think his friends heard so much about you and they are just dying to meet you. When in fact, when he talks about you, he refers to you as 'long island chick" or "long island" for short.
2. He'd admit that there is someone else he likes for no reason, then explain that he wants just you and goes on to profess his growing love for you...
3. Make you think he cut off another chick and she thinks he cut you off too. So both girls think they are the main focus.
4. Would make sure to tell a girl, how he feels only when he's drunk.. so it can be awkward bringing it up when he is actually sober. (This one is actually brilliant btw)
Why try to keep up with all this? Why pretend? lead on? Why not just keep her at a good distance instead making her feel like she is the best thing that happened when you know you secretly warming up to another chick? Is it worth it?
All these points relate to one situation... how I know? Read his messages.
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It sounds like you go for super popular super outgoing guys who portray enough confidence to hold multiple girls simultaniously.
There are nice guys who aren't like that, but they're less skilled attracting women than players. The reason is that players get a ton of practice learning works on a girl, breaking up, improving their tactics, and repeating. Conversely, a nice guy is awkward and bad at getting a woman's attention until his first success, at which time he removes himself from the dating arena to commit to her and is never seen by single women again.
Conclusion: find a nice guy who has yet to succeed at dating and settle down with a woman.1