I am a twenty year old with a taste for older women (23-35), most girls my age (and younger) I find too immature to be in a serious relationship with. I grew up a bit differently than most guys, I was the youngest in the household by over a decade so I grew up and matured rather quickly. I'm very outgoing, fun, romantic, etc. And never have a problem striking up a conversation with anyone. Most people think I'm in my late twenties when they meet me.
Now I can chat with older women for a while, have a wonderful conversation with them, great chemistry, flirting, etc. , then they eventually ask my age (which I refuse to lie about) and when they find out I'm twenty, usually five minutes later they will find some excuse to leave and end it there if not saying I'm too young outright. I've even had cases of women giving me their numbers before and then asking for them back.
So tell me, why is it that regardless of maturity, income, personality, or anything else under the moon that the second older women find out my age they suddenly find me unappealing?
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Guys your age have a horrible reputation (they just want to get as many girls as possible, they are not necessarily interested in long term, and really it's all about testing the water). Unfortunately you are going to have to pay the price for their reputation. Women are looking for a guy who is on the same life script as them - for example, a mature woman is finished school, looking to settle down (perhaps purchase a condo, house etc), she has a set career (more or less) - so basically she wants to find a guy who is on the same life track as her. I would not go further than approaching a woman who is past 24. Unless she is only of those bohemian, off-beat types who lives life by the moment then really, she would be attracted to a younger guy. Usually this woman is very financially comfortable (and is independent) doesn't rely on a man to support her. She probably doesn't practice 'traditional' gender roles either. It is rare to find a younger guy that interested in older women, she doesn't see men as fulfilling a void in her. She is confident that she can follow through with younger guy regardless of societies opinions. This is an intriguing idea. What attracts you to older women?0