I used to date this girl in highschool, she hurt me. She didn't cheat on me or abuse me but she led me on and rejected my marriage purposal. I'm unsure of what to think now that she is trying to throw herself back into my life. A part of me will always love her and want her in my life, but I'm unsure of what I want and I've been avoiding her and just don't know what to do anymore.... suggestions?
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The first girl I loved got the reject stamp out and then tried to reverse the situation. At the time I still loved her but I knew I'd sustained damage and wasn't sure if I could forgive her or risk going through it again. I consulted some friends (male and female) who knew both of us and while they said it was my decision they thought she was flaky but smart enough to come across sincere and suggested it'd be a bad idea. With hindsight, I'm glad I didn't let her back into my life!1