apperantly her ex is a selfish person, who cheated on her, and wanted to start a new relationship with a new girl. he spends most of the money and his own needs. while she and her son barely have something to eat. he is not really interested in his son, and treated her like garbage all the time they were together.
her family didn't like him. i felt comfortable with her family, and they really seemed to like me. they all told her she should take me, which i never asked for. she feels pressured by all these people. i never asked for it. we kissed that same evening, a few times, and next day the same.
so we planned a date for today and she canceled it yesterday, half hour after telling me she was looking forward to today. she writes me she wants to be on her own, etc..i dont know where this sudden change of heart comes from. she still has contact with her ex, and lives at their appartment.
now today i talked to her mom, and she wrote her mom how i annoyed her, i dont know how and why. she writes me mostly, sending sweet texts, telling me to write her etc... i really dont know what i did to annoy her.
i like her a lot and thought she thought the same. im not sure how to handle this situation because i feel like i should just keep quiet for a few days, and im not pressuring her. she asked me to come today, to go swimming with her son, to sleep over at her place. i didn't do any of that, i just agreed. she says she is very confused and i understand but she is twisting it around. that doesn't feel fair to me.
what should i do, and will she come around, especially since her ex is stirring things up, simply because his new relationship failed and he sees that she is seeing someone new.