Would it be a good or bad move if I told him?

Last Friday , a guy at my work asked me out. I turned him down because I didn't think it was fair to him if I said yes when I have a crush on someone else that we both work with. This is the 3rd guy at my work that has asked me out. If I were to say something to my crush about this guy asking me out (he knows about the other 2), do you think I would ruin my chances of him ever asking me out or do you think It would motivate him to ask me out in case other guy do and he misses his chance?


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What Guys Said 1

  • I wouldn't say anything unless someone brings it up.

    No need to.. why does it matter if they other guys asked you out or not? You're with him and he's with you... it's not like your cheating or lying.

    You're cheating if you go behind his back and you aren't.
    You're not lying because he never asked you. So it's all good...


What Girls Said 1

  • Don't tell him. Keep your mouth shut. If he asks then mention it but if he doesn't ask then just keep your mouth shut.


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