Girls, why do females like the bad boy type?

ladies why do y'all go for the bad boys. the lazy ones that don't have a job no car no money. and the one's that treat y'all like crap and the ones that cheat on y'all and hit y'all instead of going for a good guy that does work and have money and has his life in place
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Thanks all. sorry if it came out wrong

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  • I will say it again for 100th time, no such thing... there is guys with confidence and then there is immature boys with confidence who aren't ready to be serious to any girl yet, it's the confidence part and the fact he truly knows he's cute and that he's capable in his abilities in sex and in all types of things in life that is extremely attractive, that capableness is really great. Too many supposed "good guys" though lack in confidence because just like most girls they are constantly feeling insecure and comparing themselves to other guys...

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    • well said

    • Thanks :) i personally love that kind of confidence in a guy, it's irresitible because he's also more fun and not some boring guy who has everything planned out to a T... i don't want to know what will happen, i just want to be happy and have fun and id like for a guy to be the source of that fun and happiness.

    • I like the way u thank (:

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  • I don't like bad boys and have never liked bad boys. At least not since I was 10 years old. I want a guy who treats people well, respects both others and himself and especially respects his god, takes cares of others and looks at everyone with a heart of compassion, understanding, empathy and focuses on self-improvement.

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  • I think it's because we feel like they can protect us. Even though that thought doesn't come to our mind but I know girls want to be protected so maybe thats why deep down inside we always lean toward the bad boys because our female intuition wants that.

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  • I think being lazy and not caring about e. g school or your job is a really turn of. I think other girls like bad boys because they are a bit mysterious and are sexy. They want a bad boy who's good to them. Like she's special or something, like in a book or movie

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  • Like, sometimes prefer, rarely marry or to raise kids with
    the bad boys are a refreshing relief from WAITING for a buy to drum up the courage to ask us out
    then such outings are going to be more edgy and nontraditional adventures than choir boy suggestions.
    We take a risk, sure but the rewards can be memorable, so long as we can control the situations.

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  • Bad guys give off a vibe of trouble and adventure and some women like that. Just because there are loads of stories about good girls dating bad boys doesn't mean it's every girl's preference. Besides, some bad boys are the ones who just have so many layers of walls of hurt that they just need to do things that they do to get away from it all.

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  • Girls go for guys that treat them the way they are used to being treated. Often girls with deadbeat dads will find men who act the same way attractive because that is what they are used to and what they think is normal. Or girls who are naive and sheltered are looking for adventure and excitement and think the guy will provide them that

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  • They have more confidence, they take control, they are straight to the point. The thing is women respond more to the guy who is straight forward, than to the guy who is beating around the bush and taking too long. Not saying that they don't want the sweet, kind, caring and their hearts on their sleeves kind of guy but those guys, just need some more confidence and they can get just as much women as the bad boy.

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  • Im not one to want to be with someone with no money or job because if im working so are you and bad boys are more fun unpredictable some girls want excitment in their life me i only want one guy right now and he's not a bad boy ion think he is but yeah some girls get bored or been with them forever and just dont wanna let go. and believe it or not some girls like when guys hit them they actually egg them on to do it i guess it depends on what the guys does and who the girl is.

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  • I can't really speak from my perspective, since I do not go for that type at all. I prefer confidence, ambition, respectful and a caring/kind attitude. But I do have a friend that liked this type that you've mentioned. She said she was attracted to him, because she thought she could maybe fix him or build him up... not in a negative way like completely change his personality, but try to make him a better person and see him succeed in life.

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  • Women who know themselves and respect themsleves wouldn't dare to go for a guy like that. most chick that end up with loosers have all sort of issues, past abuse, insecurities and so forth. Until they find their own worth they are happy among the worthless.

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  • Some guys generalize women as gold diggers who won't give a poor guy a second look and only want money. According to you, women don't want men with their shit together they want bums.

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  • don't generalize women its okay if it came out wrong i am not waiting around for someone with no job or car. i myself am independent and i expect him to be somewhat independent. and if he treats me crap, i will put him in his place

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  • It's kinda of like a fun adventure in a way. And for some reason attractive but nice guys are good to unless they are too nice then it is kind of weird

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  • I don't really like those types at all, I liked a guy for a couple months and then I was placed opposite him in a class one day to find out that he was totally lazy, selfish and horrid any attraction I felt before that point disappeared.

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  • A bad boy doesn't have car job or money? Isn't that a loser? Im irritated by losers :/ but its hard to attract a guy who's got his head on straight

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    • I have mine in straight lol

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    • I know!!! Its under the guise of income producing but more stressful than needed ): ugh. Well I'm sure you'll find a lady that doesn't like losers or bad boys haha

    • Maybe so. thank ya. have a great day :)

  • I don't think that when it comes to bad boys. My version of a bad boy is a guy with a motorcycle who gives off mean/bad look that's also very sexy at the same time. They have a temper when it comes to protecting you but really they are sweet and loving (and the sex would be great). And he would have this really manly job like a mechanic or something.

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  • Well its cause its more adventures and fun with the bad boy knowing that getting something that was hard to get and if we do get the bad boy its like we tamed the beast and maybe some girls well show off that fact. For lazy boys they do and want nothing fun or have something interesting to do or say. Good guys they play to safe, in the end we want to have the nice guys or someone to respect us that's what I think

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  • I dated a guy like that once. He was really, really, attractive and really catered to most of my needs

    But me paying for dates and his constant smoking made it less and less appealing.

    What was attractive was his look (dark colors, black Ts and skinny jeans, nice style...). Also he always told me and meant it, that he thought I was hot, beautiful or sexy and kissed me, We held hands walking, and went to places we probably shouldn't have gone to make out at all types of night but I felt safe with him. He was silent sometimes and always said how he felt like even if he was pissed and I don't know he had a deep voice and it is just nice when a guy is intense or passionate about things and you're a part of that.

    I wish most guys were like him plus a job and more focused on the future and not so intense its borderline scary lol can't have it all I guess?

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  • maybe we'd rather be a push over and money or all of that stuff is materialistic it doesn't matter you love who you love..

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  • I am going to say this once to set the record straight, NOT ALL WOMEN SHARE SIMILAR TASTE IN MEN. I personally hate inconsiderate, rude, loud and obnoxious men. They annoy me and appear to me as:
    a) attention seekers
    b) crowd pleaser
    c) hollow, empty lifeless shell
    I would prefer an emotional roller coaster to a macho guy any day, at least the emotional roller coaster has dimensions and depth.

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