However, this is sort of an informal dating site (that allows under 18's as you may have noticed). And while I filled out a lot of the stuff, including my height (5'4), I don't know if people on there actually bother to look because most others have almost nothing filled out. Many of the other guys don't list their height.
I am afraid she will be taken aback by me being very short at the date, especially because she seems kind of tall. Should I just go without telling her and let her find out, or tell her right now in text what my height is? She hasn't asked.