I went on a date with a guy last Thursday and it was great. During our date he mentioned that we should go watch a movie together, and towards the end he kept his arms around me as we walked etc, there was chemistry and we both wanted to meet again.
I went away on Sunday and before i left i texted him on Saturday asking how his dads birthday went, just to talk before i leave.
On wensday i was bored so i wrote him again, and we talked and i mentioned the movie and if he still was up for it and he said yes and asked me when i was available and i said on Saturday ( tomorrow) and he said that works fine for him but we can plan it more today.
SO my question is, i feel like i am the one chasing him...so do i contact him about the movies or do i wait until he contacts me to set date?
I really want to meet up with him again but what if im coming off as desperate? We met each other on tinder and he has been active on tinder since..i mean we went on one date together and thats ok.
What to do ?
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Sometimes you need to take the lead because guys can be shy too or unsure. What you are doing seems right. After your next date you can chill a bit with the texting and see if he initiates next time around. I'd say that is fair and something I would probably do myself. So yes, contact him about the movies and set up the date. Next time it's on him though! Oh and just a little tip.. if a guy really likes you he wouldn't be worried about you texting him and initiating. Only guys who are playing games or guys who are not sure of their feelings seems to care about it. I'm just talking out of experience here.0