So I've been dating this dude for a short while (about a month) and it has been rocky since day one. To be more specific, he has been kind of a jerk but I assumed that he just has a wall up. Later, I find out that he's been talking to his ex via Facebook about how he believes our relationship isn't going to last because "there is no connection" and that he misses her, etc. I left him once because of this, saying that is disrespectful toward me and if that's how he felt then why waste more of my time.
He literally begged and pleaded to be with me, and I said to block her on Facebook as their is no reason to be talking to her. He said okay at first but when it was time to do it, he made it more difficult.
He blocked her for literally a minute before unblocking her and talking to her again, which I find out two days later. I leave him again as I told him that lying was not the best choice of action and that I'm done being lied to. He had also messaged a chick saying how he had a "dream of her boobs" which also irked me. He once again begged and pleaded to be with me. Said he would block them both. He would give me his password to Facebook or even delete it (which I didn't accept).
He also admitted to me that when we've had intercourse, he was quick on purpose which irritated me even more as I've never had a selfish partner. He said he hasn't "been himself" and is going to change his selfish ways. But so far, nothing.
Ultimately, I feel bipolar and crazy because I've been trying to leave him multiple times to which I fall back into because I feel bad. I like him a lot but at this point I'm unsure if it's even worth dealing with.
Most Helpful Guy
Drop this guy like a bad habit. A good relationship is built on trust, of which it sounds as though he is lacking a lot. I'd say lose this guy and don't look back. If he someday can prove to you he is trustworthy, then maybe. But don't stay with him because he is begging. He needs to live up to and deserve you.
It's like a kid who wants candy. They gotta learn to clean their room first. You can't just give them candy because they begged for it
Most Helpful Girl
Leave him please... things in a relationship are only supposed to get better, and you deserve better. Honestly this guy isn't over his ex and if he can't get over her than why get in a relationship? -.-" this guy is not only a true jerk, but a selfish two timing asshole. You need to leave him and don't go back to him. Love isn't supposed to hurt, at least not in the long run. This guy isn't going to change, plus you've been with him for only a month... and in all honesty a guy can't get too friendly with any girl when they are in a relationship and neither can we as girls. Also, don't compare yourself to her in any way because jealousy is the ugliest trait and you are a beautiful person. :) So leave this guy and respect and love yourself, be positive and attract positivity. Be confident and show him you are no one's bitch. I hope this helps :) goodluck, please update me on your decision.