Every time we are at a party or just out in general my girlfriend gives me her phone to hold because she doesn't have pockets. The last couple times we have been out her phone has vibrated in my pocket and Ill look at it and I've seen her ex of about 4 months ago snapping her....out of curiosity I look at their snap history and I see they snap eachother back and forth every day AND he is on her best friend list.
I think it's complete BS to stay in contact with an ex when you are in a relationship with someone else but am I just being possesive? Should I confront her about this?
Most Helpful Girl
I say confront her cause that is just crossing the line... you are supposed to be her best friend and like her boyfriend... sure if he said hai and they checked up on each other before deciding to not talk anymore it would be passable, but everyday? fuck no! don't start yelling, at least not soon, and tell her that it legit bothers you. Ask her how she would feel if you were talking to your ex 24/7 or a random chick instead of her.. if she says she wouldn't mind she is either lying or has a very fucked up perception of the words "faithful, loyal, and love" Best of luck!0
Most Helpful Guy
I don't blame you. I wouldn't want to date a girl who is still great friends with ex-boyfriends. It's just asking for trouble. Plus you said it's everyday occurrence.
I will say that lumos is right about the fact that she's not going to be happy about the fact you looked through her phone. I wouldn't be suprised if she turns the argument around and makes you the bad guy, so just be prepared for that.
maybe you could start snapchatting everyday with one of your ex's :/0