I'm afraid that later when I'll be living with a partner, if he cheats on me, i won't be able to kick him out/cut him out of my life, because i always wanna forgive people i love.
So help me please!
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there's a difference between forgiving and repeating a mistake. yes you can forgive, but forgiveness is a personal thing, forgiving is you no longer being angry at a matter or letting it get to you and being at peace with what happened and the person who has wronged you. Under no circumstances should that be mistaken for allowing them to repeat the offence.
Forgive but dont forget, if someone constantly steals from you because you gave them keys to your house, you can forgive them for stealing, but you shouldn't just leave the locks unchanged. You forgiving that person means you are no longer angry and there's no bad blood between the two of you, but that doesn't mean the person will change, so you still have to make the proper precautions to not be stolen from again.