Im considering dating a guy and sometimes a bit unsure if i want to date him for the "right reasons". Its not because of his looks that makes me want to date him, he's not unattractive, not at all, but if i saw him at the club and he came up to me im not sure if i would even bothered talking/interacting with him. I have only met him a couple of times, but from my former experiences with him i really like to talk to him, maybe mostly because he makes me feel like im an interesting and fun person.
He also come across as a guy that might not have that much experience with girl in addition to coming across as someone thats maybe a bit insecure. because of that in my head he would be a great boyfriend/someone to date just because i feel like he's the type to really appreciate the one he's with.
So i basically i want to date him because he makes me feel good and because i feel like he's a more "secure choice" because he doesn't go around sleeping with a lot of girl and he inst that experienced. Would you say those are "bad" reasons to want to date him?
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I think you should be careful not to corrupt him. If he is as innocent as you say he is, it sounds like you have the experience to know when a guy is taking advantage of you, or does not appreciate you.
Just like many men corrupt woman's hearts with their calloused ways, so can many men fall under a woman's spell and become jaded themselves.
For your sake and his, be careful.