I met someone a year ago. There was an instant attraction. I only knew one person at the party so I was the odd ball out. But he came up and stayed by my side the entire time. Making me feel so comfortable. The second time I saw him he stayed with me the entire time as well. We get along great and there is always a conversation going. Of was never awkward. He kept in touch through Facebook and texts but we hadn't hung out again because I wouldn't allow it. I was afraid of pursuing anything for the simple fact that I shut myself down to the idea of love. I've been screwed over a lot. Last weekend he got ahold of me. I always liked him, a lot more than I intended. Hence, why I snubbed him when he asked to see me. But against my original plan, I went to his house for the weekend. I let down my guard completely and let him in 100%. I didn't hold back at all. Now, since I left his house I have been a wreck. Falling for him wasn't something I wanted. He is the only man who has ever made me smile just from being a total goofball. Everyone picks him apart for his immaturity, but I honestly find it attractive. In a sense where it is always interesting. Never a dull moment. I found myself losing myself in his smile. And when he kissed me, it sounds cheesy as fuck, but honestly it was like my legs turned to jello and I just completely melted into his arms. I have become open to the idea that, oh yeah, I'm falling for this dude. But here's the screwed up part. His brother and sister in law found out we were hanging out and they both have told me to stay away. They say he's a fuck and chuck type of guy. They say he never keeps anyone around. While I was there though, my children's grandmother died. And when I told him, he did nothing but try to comfort me. Comfort is a huge deal to me. Without comfort there is nothing. So I find it hard to even take in what his brother and sister in law are saying. I'm falling for him. And I really don't know what to do. Advice would be fantastic.
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Well this seems a critical situation for you.. All you can do is control your emotions.. Use a little bit of your brain and keep an eye not only on him BUT ALSO HIS BROTHER AND SISTER IN LAW... Keep an eye on three of them all.. Lol yeah I'm trying to say you that spy on them.. Try figuring out why his in laws told you like that and if he is the same kind of person or not. You gotta be very careful.. Follow your heart but don't forget your brain.. Try controlling your emotions0
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