how does knowing other guys are after the girl you like make you feel?Does it make you want her more? Does it make you want to try harder, or does it make you less interested in her?
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Lol, no. Most guys feel expendable compared to women. Many women can just walk up to any single guy, ask for his number, and do this on a regular basis.
Not only that, but everyone wants to be THE ONE. That one person that stands out against the rest. If someone's interested in you, you shouldn't have anything to prove against someone else. Love shouldn't be a competition or a popularity contest.
Unfortunately, ideals don't always match reality. People like attention, and competitors know how to give attention.0