I feel in a bit of a dating rut the past year. I've been single for almost 4 years. The first two I was not ready after my last long relationship to have anything meaningful but the past two years and especially the last year I've been really wanting to have someone special in my life. I'm not desperate or anything, I've turned people down who I knew it wouldn't work with. Im just getting to that age where all my friends are getting married and having babies and I feel like I'm losing them to their domesticated life. I keep meeting the wrong people I've done online dating and I've met people at my rockclimbing gym. Any tips to meet new people and get out of this rut?