Most Helpful Girl
"Do I need to work on myself before dating?"... YES.
You should be focus on resolving your issues instead of getting involved with someone else. It's unfair to the other person to deal with your baggage. Why not work on them first then try your hand at dating? Also, if you're trying to use "love" or "sex" or "dating" to deal with your issues then thats so not the way to go. In fact it can make it even worst. I've had friends who depend on guys to keep their self esteem steady and when the guy jets or doesn't feed their ego, their self esteem collapse. Thats because it was only being balanced by someone else. they had all the power over that person's self esteem. I wish u the best with everything. Sorry if I sound harsh! Just tryna help! :)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't say selfish so much as ill-advised and silly. If you know you have an issue, why continue to live with it instead of addressing it? That makes no sense to me when people KNOW what their issue is, but don't have the gumption to buckle down and attack it head on.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE