i know, it's not a big deal, but I asked him because I was worried about STD's. He wouldn't tell me his past partners. He was ok with saying his past hookups, but wouldn't say who he had sex with. One of his close friends mentioned the girl. I asked him the girl that was mentioneda and finally he admitted to me it was her. I was so shocked and still shocked. I don't personally know her, but I know of her. I just find it so disgusting. I get it, he didn't know me then, and it was before me. But still.
I don't know, is this normal? am I over-reacting?
- You're over-reacting.Vote A
- It's normal to feel like this.Vote B
- Other- explain pleaseVote C
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Someone you are intimate with was intimate with somebody else... Yeah, there's gonna be some tension there.
Are you over reacting? No.
Is there anything you can do about it? No.
if you love him and want to be with him, you need to forgive him. There's literally no other way.
So is that a good thing? definitely not.
You have every right to feel the way you do. But if you want to stay with him, you'll have to get over it. Sorry2