Have you ever really liked someone who is currently single and you are currently single, but avoided them? Like not call them back or answer fb messages? Why did you avoid them? Did you ever get around to asking them out?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, I had a crush on a girl for over 2 years in high school. At first I was just embarrassed about accidentally giving away that I liked her, then I talked with her minimally, and then I was paranoid about seeming like a creeper for not following through, and any attempt later on would make me look lame. I kind of have the same thing now because I want to hang out with this girl I was friends with a few years ago, but I haven't made an effort to hang out with her in a long time. I'd rather just pretend I'm not interested than be judged for not taking initiative, and sometimes that's the reason for not taking initiative. It's a terrible trap to get into.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I do that sometimes, especially if that guy is like "out of my league" or have a lot of female friends, I would feel like there is no chance and I would be wasting my time so even if that guy talks to me I will avoid him to avoid getting hurt.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE