So, basically, I'm black and I'm into this girl that's white. Now, since high school began I've mostly liked white girls, I think cuz my school is predominately white, anyway, so yeah, but I always get rejected. These days I just assume my rejection early on and not form emotional attachments at all. However, there's this girl and she's pretty cool, and, while I've known her for a while, I never really got to know her that well...or much at all. My problem is, I still don't know how to approach it, whether to form an emotional whatever or not, and, I'm kinda too lazy to try. I did tell my dad she's Hispanic (black at first) mostly because, while he has nothing against me dating a white girl, or even thinks they themselves are racist, he thinks I don't have any chance at all if I chased one, so yeah. What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
I think you should stop asking girl out left and right. And this girl who's cool to you probably wouldn't want to risk ruining your friendship. But if you really like her, go for it haha0
Most Helpful Guy
You're doing it right. Don't form emotional attachments. As a matter of fact you should NEVER form emotional attachments. This is coming from a 30 year old dude. They always turn around and act stupid or stab you in the back. The guys I know are always way more emotionally attached than the females, more loyal, they just don't show it. Of course chicks always get upset about this and use it as one of their excuses to cheat or leave you. Go figure. There's no loyalty man.
If you do form an attachment always be REALISTIC. She could leave you at any time. Don't be surprised when she does. Don't be a fool and turn a blind eye when you see the signs and hear the sounds. So really, it's not just white girls you should be on alert about. It's all girls.
These other dudes will talk shit about what I said. Sure. You want to be that guy to get your heart broken and cry about it? Chicks will say that they need your full 100% trust? Go ahead. That's not me though. And they'll never have it. If they don't get why then they're too stupid to be hanging out with anyway.0