Most Helpful Girl
I think you should stop asking girl out left and right. And this girl who's cool to you probably wouldn't want to risk ruining your friendship. But if you really like her, go for it haha
Most Helpful Guy
You're doing it right. Don't form emotional attachments. As a matter of fact you should NEVER form emotional attachments. This is coming from a 30 year old dude. They always turn around and act stupid or stab you in the back. The guys I know are always way more emotionally attached than the females, more loyal, they just don't show it. Of course chicks always get upset about this and use it as one of their excuses to cheat or leave you. Go figure. There's no loyalty man.
If you do form an attachment always be REALISTIC. She could leave you at any time. Don't be surprised when she does. Don't be a fool and turn a blind eye when you see the signs and hear the sounds. So really, it's not just white girls you should be on alert about. It's all girls.
These other dudes will talk shit about what I said. Sure. You want to be that guy to get your heart broken and cry about it? Chicks will say that they need your full 100% trust? Go ahead. That's not me though. And they'll never have it. If they don't get why then they're too stupid to be hanging out with anyway.