Hey, I was just wondering here. I have a bf and I feel like I wanna hug and kiss him all the time, but when I wanna hug him or kiss him, I feel like I have to ask. Is this what you guys call clingy? Does clingy girls turn you off? Also should I have to ask everytime I want affection or would a guy prefer me to just go and hug and kiss him without asking?
Guys, guys do you like it when girls are clingy? And should we really have to ask for hugs or kisses?
What Guys Said 5
Yup, that's what I'd call clingy.
Annoys me now and annoyed me at that age too. Most men I know *need* space, and if we don't get it, we find out how to get it, which can often lead to us dumping women simply b/c they were too clingy.
I know it sounds counterintuitive, but if you want more hugs and kisses, try being more distant with him. This should spark a craving in him to see you more, and kiss and hug you more too.
Clingy to me would be denying me some time on my own or hanging off me 24/7. Showing affection when we are together is different. Kisses and hugs are perfectly fine and I wouldn't place a limit on them.
I'd love it if my gf would just spontaneously show affection. :)
None of the above would turn me off; quite the opposite actually.1
just do it no need to ask no that's not clingy that's just affectionate.1
I like it. For me it depends on how close I am with the girl. It depends on what YOUR guy thinks, and his comfortable level with a girlfriend. Some guys could get physically close on the first date, others might take months.1
Umm you can hug him of course and kiss as well
But there's gotta be a timing like you can't just hug him while he's in the middle of a conversation with someone you never know what's being discussed (might be important)
And clingy is not a turn on But it ain't a turn off either :)1
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